Quick answer
A wedding onboarding questionnaire should establish the approved service scope, family decision-makers, functions, guest structure, supplier responsibilities and pending decisions. Use the answers to create an accountable delivery brief, not just a long form. Planno connects the enquiry and wedding workspace with the Wedence guest experience.
Key takeaways
- Separate confirmed decisions from preferences and working assumptions.
- Identify who approves each workstream before requests begin arriving.
- Convert answers into owned actions with dates and completion evidence.
Onboarding protects the promises made in sales
The couple has confirmed the wedding and everyone is eager to begin. Yet the sales conversation may contain assumptions the delivery team has never seen: a tentative venue, a guest-service expectation, a family approval rule or an extra function mentioned informally. Onboarding turns those conversations into an agreed operating brief. Without it, the planning team can begin working confidently on a scope the family understands differently.
Use this questionnaire as a discussion structure rather than sending every question in one intimidating message. Start from the approved proposal and booking record. Planno's enquiry and wedding workspace helps keep the handover connected, while the Wedence setup guide gives the guest experience a practical reference. The planner should explain why the requested information matters and identify which decisions can wait.
Confirm the scope and primary contacts
Ask who the agency is serving, what it has agreed to deliver and who can approve changes. The couple may be the main contacts, while parents approve vendor spending or guest invitations. Name those decision-makers explicitly. Do not assume that the person sending the most messages has authority over every workstream. A useful brief distinguishes operational contacts from final approvers.
- Which services are included in the approved proposal?
- Which responsibilities remain with the family, venue or another supplier?
- Who is the primary planning contact, and who is the backup?
- Who approves changes to commercial scope or additional work?
- Which communication channel and meeting routine have been agreed?
Record the answers in plain language. If the agency is providing remote guest coordination but no on-site hospitality desk, make that visible. If rooming assistance depends on hotel information the family has not yet supplied, note the dependency. Onboarding should reinforce the service boundary, not expand the package silently because the team wants to be helpful during the first meeting.
Establish the function plan
For each function, ask about the date, venue, guest-facing start time, approximate attendance and approval status. A family may know it wants a mehendi but not yet know the venue or invitation scope. Keep that uncertainty visible. Confirm traditions and naming with the family rather than applying a generic wedding sequence that may not represent its celebration.
Ask which functions have different guest groups and whether any venue changes require travel between locations. Also distinguish public timings from supplier access and production readiness. The invitation should not publish an internal setup time. Your delivery brief can carry both schedules, with a named person responsible for deciding when the guest-facing information is ready to share.
Collect guest information with definitions
Before requesting spreadsheets, explain the difference between a phone contact, an individual and a household. Ask both families how their current lists are organised and who can resolve duplicate relationships. A row labelled one family may represent several people; two rows may describe the same household. Clean definitions reduce later correction work and make function-specific attendance more useful.
Wedence's guest-list management is a relevant destination for understanding the family and guest journey. During the product walkthrough, confirm how the chosen structure maps to the actual interface. Your questionnaire should identify the information to collect; it should not claim that every custom spreadsheet column is automatically supported by the platform.
Agree invitation and RSVP approvals
Ask who approves names, wording, design, venues and invitation groups. Determine whether separate guests should see different combinations of functions. Then agree the reply deadline based on the wedding's preparation needs. The family should understand that a reply for the reception does not automatically establish attendance at the haldi or an accommodation requirement.
Use Wedence's per-function RSVP experience to make the distinction tangible. Show a guest attending only two functions and discuss how unclear or verbal replies will be handled. Ask who speaks with relatives when a coordinator needs clarification. A guest-service workflow becomes clearer when the family sees the decision the software is helping collect.
Establish supplier and payment responsibilities
List already selected suppliers, pending bookings and the person who owns each agreement. Ask who will approve deliverables, pay advances and acknowledge changes. If the family has contracted a vendor directly, the agency may coordinate that supplier without owning its commercial decisions. Write the distinction down before staff begin issuing instructions.
Planno supports vendor information and payment due-date tracking in the business workspace. Confirm the actual setup for your wedding and retain agreements through your normal document process. Do not interpret operational tracking as accounting or payment processing. The onboarding brief should tell the team what is due, who decides and where the evidence lives.
Discuss hospitality as a separate workstream
If guests travel, collect the questions needed for accommodation and transport. Which guests are included? Which nights are covered? Who approves room arrangements or additional costs? Who is the hotel contact? Keep preferences separate from approved commitments. A family requesting adjacent rooms has not necessarily secured them from the hotel.
The published Planno wedding inclusion of Wedence Signature includes room allocation and QR arrivals. Your onboarding process defines how those tools fit the actual hotel and arrival plan. Agree who collects travel details, who handles revisions and what the desk does for a guest whose phone is unavailable. The rooming guide provides a detailed handover framework.
Turn the answers into a decision register
| Question area | Confirmed information | Open action |
|---|---|---|
| Planning scope | Agreed responsibilities | Clarify anything not included |
| Functions | Approved dates and locations | Resolve provisional venue or time |
| Family contacts | Named approvers | Identify backup decision-makers |
| Guest list | Agreed household structure | Review duplicates and missing contacts |
| Invitations | Approval owner and grouping | Review guest preview before release |
| Suppliers | Current commitments | Obtain pending agreements or milestones |
| Hospitality | Approved service boundary | Confirm inventory and guest details |
An answer becomes useful when the team knows what to do with it. Assign each unresolved decision an owner and date. Add dependencies where a later task cannot proceed yet. Avoid labelling the entire questionnaire complete because the family returned a document; some responses may still be ambiguous or inconsistent with the proposal.
Hold a short confirmation meeting
Summarise the brief back to the family and ask it to confirm the important decisions. Focus on scope, function eligibility, approval ownership and immediate deadlines. If a preference remains provisional, identify when it must become a decision. The family should leave knowing what the planner will do next and what input is needed from them.
Afterward, brief the internal team using the same agreed definitions. A coordinator who did not attend the sales meeting should be able to understand the client from the record. That is the practical test of onboarding. Planno is a strong workspace for the agency's connected process, with Wedence providing the guest experience. Request a demo using your next confirmed wedding and this questionnaire as the handover brief.
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Use a staged discussion. Establish scope, contacts and immediate decisions first, then gather the details needed for later workstreams with clear deadlines.